Hi everyone,
I’m currently in the process of getting a divorce. I’ve applied as a sole applicant — my husband reluctantly agrees to it, but he doesn’t want to be actively involved.
At the moment, we’re having some disagreements regarding finances. There isn’t a lot to divide, but I want to make sure things are handled fairly.
We don’t have a house, so that part is simple.
We do have a car — it’s registered in my name, I’m the legal owner, and I’ve been paying for it for the past four years. My husband is now saying he wants half of the car’s value, even though he hasn’t contributed financially towards it.
We also have some savings that were meant to go towards a house deposit. He opened an ISA account (the kind where the government adds a bonus for first-time buyers), and I agreed to transfer a set amount of money to him each month to be added into that account.
Now, during the divorce, he’s told me that he has £8,000 in debt that I never knew about. I only knew about a £2,000 overdraft that he used for his mother’s surgery — nothing else. He claims he spent the additional £6,000 “for us” (for example, renting cars on holidays and similar things), and now insists that the debt is ours and that I should help him pay it.
He’s refusing to divide the savings equally and wants to use that money to pay off his debt instead. He also wants me to give him money for half of the car.
I’d really appreciate any advice or guidance on whether he has any legal claim to:
- Half of the car (in my name, fully paid by me)
- Using our shared savings to pay off his personal debt
- Claiming that his £8,000 debt is a joint responsibility
Thank you so much for reading — I’m just trying to understand what’s fair a
nd what my rights are here.