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PiccoloPomodoro · 12/10/2025 07:43

Little background information: been with my husband for almost 19 years and married for 11, in 2023 i started to feel unloved by him. He would often comment on my appearance and control every situation financially, holidays, when to visit my parents (which we rarely do) we would always be at his parents home. Every easter and christmas etc. We have 2 DD together. Last yr the day of our anniverary i didnt consent, this hurt me considering my childhood. So October-December i had an affair (he cant accept why. Im not a victim in this he is. This is all he says. He cant see why ive done this. I know ive done wrong however i had reasons to why) we have just filed for divorce. However under tense therapy he has finally admitted he has controlled me and our relationship little too late after hes physically hurt me by making my lips swollen. Our DD’s dont know and we arw still living together until divorce is final. However, he informed me his mum has gifted him a car until after the divorce. However there is proof the car is registered in his name at his parents address. Would the courts see this as hiding assets? I dont have my own car. He earns more than me and it was his controlling that he told me i needed to get rid of my car when our first DD was born in 2017.

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millymollymoomoo · 12/10/2025 08:39

Unlikely tbh, but if it’s in his name would count as an asset. It won’t materially impact any settlement.

in all of this mess the least you want to be fighting over is a car given to him by his mother .

id suggest you both focus on how you can end this, and move on fir the sake of your children !

PiccoloPomodoro · 12/10/2025 09:20

millymollymoomoo · 12/10/2025 08:39

Unlikely tbh, but if it’s in his name would count as an asset. It won’t materially impact any settlement.

in all of this mess the least you want to be fighting over is a car given to him by his mother .

id suggest you both focus on how you can end this, and move on fir the sake of your children !

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Thank you!

Ngl, the whole situation is toxic and i am trying to move on for the sake of my children, even tho the divorce is going through he still goes out his way to make nasty comments in front of them

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LemonTT · 12/10/2025 10:41

It’s not a hidden asset. You know it exists and can get it valued. It becomes a marital asset if he used his savings from when you were together to buy it. If his parents bought it after you split it is treated differently.

PiccoloPomodoro · 12/10/2025 11:14

LemonTT · 12/10/2025 10:41

It’s not a hidden asset. You know it exists and can get it valued. It becomes a marital asset if he used his savings from when you were together to buy it. If his parents bought it after you split it is treated differently.

he said they have got it now and hes getting rid of it after the divorce

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