The women that go for other women man

[Brokenx33years]

Would you trust your other half when he away on the trip and stay in the hotel?

and then find out that the women approach him to say that he look sad so she offer a massage and the rest is history. How can you come back from this?

What, did she kidnap him, lock him in his room, drug him and refuse to let him go until he'd had sex with her?

I don't think you can come back from this.
If she really did approach him and offer a massage and have sex with him it sounds as though she is a sex worker and it definitely won't be the first time he has used one.
Is this your H?
I'm really sorry OP if it is.

Why is your title blaming the other woman? And no I wouldn't come back from my partner paying for a sex worker

He should be sincere enough to say no to a massage, then it wouldn’t lead on to anything further, if he cannot say no, then it’s down to him.

You start coming back from this by not blaming the woman and holding the man entirely responsible for his own actions. She can offer all she likes, it's completely on him if he takes her up on it.
Once you're in that place then you discuss what he did and if that is something you tolerate or not.

No he walk in willingly

In which case, you leave him. He is not worthy of you.

Sadly he didn’t. this women is on work business with a laptop in Birmingham Holiday Inn. Thank you for reply

Yeah sure. Business woman hanging about in a holiday inn just waiting for a man to offer him a massage. Is this the plot of a bad porno? He’s lying if he says he thought she was just going to massage him.

He’s a sleaze. She is irrelevant. Dump his sorry lying cheating arse

He is the only person I ever been with all my life and I’ve got to think of the children’s.

Yeah right. In a HIE, unlikely. They're not those kind of places. She would have been a hooker and waiting for him.

Apparently in fashion, She walk pass him in the coffee shop in the hotel and say that he look sad they get talking and in the end they shared the lift and happen to be on the same floor and the rest is you know etc

That what I thought!!

And I'm so sorry 😔

Is he a husband or just a boyfriend?
If you're unmarried and own your own house you can kick him out and co-parent your kids.

Thank you

Just what I thought it’s so hard to come to term with it. He never been astray before he seem remote of what he done. Yes he is the H

It doesn’t matter if one hundred women offered him a massage in a hotel room, he’s the one married to you and he should be turning any woman down.
It may have been what happened but ultimately the woman isn’t to blame.
I don’t know if you can come back from this it’s something you’ll have to work through.

I agree - you should think of the children and you fo that by putting your worth above this and showing him the door. He has treated you appallingly.

He assure me that is not a hooker, It a 40 something women that on business.
as they both finish coffee and she told him that she’ll give him a massage to relax and the rest.

i’m staying strong for my children that all I’m doing.

Thank you. I know my worth and the children is my priority. I’ve been trying but he not moving!!

I know and I’m trying hard to keep things as normal as possible for the children.

I’m not at all blaming I was just wondering if they are that is all!!

And how did you find out about it?

After three months of no eyes contact hugs and kisses I know something was up so ask him what the hell is going on that when I know I was right from the start!!