Children court order

[ThisWaryTurtle]

Ex has limited visitation in a supervised setting with daughter. She is 13. She is very independent and a bright kid. Ex keeps asking where she is and who she is with. He doesn't know any of her friends by sight or name and I dont feel the need to keep checking in with him who she is with! Am I being unreasonable? Hes very controlling and possessive. I dont want to be communicating with unless I need to as per the court order. Its getting to a point i am going to block him. What are your thoughts on this? How would you respond to the messages. I tend to just not respond. Many thanks all.

You are absolutely under no obligation to communicate with him, unless it is about matters specified in court order - arranging and facilitating supervised visitations.
I would block him, and set up a separate email strictly for practical arrangements. I'd send him a message from that email saying:

Dear Ex.
This is my new email for the practical arrangements as per court order. Please refrain from contacting me on any other matters not specified in the Order.
If you want to know about DD social life, etc - you can use your contact time to discuss it is her.

Regards
ThisWaryTurtle

And that's it. Save yourself anguish and stress.

Does he not have direct contact with her to ask who her friends are?

Use one of the court approved apps
https://www.ourfamilywizard.co.uk

I’d be very worried about a man who has supervised visits finding out who her friends are. I would stop entertaining this.

Thanks all. I agree with all of you. Email sent and my direct contact with him has now ceased