Horrible divorce, ex-h dragged it out for many years and wasted a lot of money on our combined solicitor's costs as he had to be court ordered to do anything required to make progress with the divorce process.
I now have debt as a result of the divorce and despite being awarded the family home whereas he was awarded another property we owned, in the city where he works, he will not move out of my house. The forms transferring ownership shares such that we each now own a property to live in have been signed off but he will not communicate in any way and will not move out.
My family helped me move a fair share of our chattels into his house (I've been given a lot of second hand furniture by friends and relatives to replace that stuff) along with most of his personal belongings but he still comes home here every night, after work, sleeps here in the spare bedroom so our teenage kids are sharing a room to accommodate that, uses the bathroom, makes his meals, watches TV in the spare room etc and now I'm faced with him being here for the entire bank holiday weekend.
To my mind he is trespassing, I really can't afford to accrue any more solicitors' bills debt. He dashes to the bathroom and locks himself in or to the spare room and leans against the door so can't get in if I try to talk to him. It's like he's refusing to accept the outcome of the court financial hearing and the legal transactions done since then to sort out separate ownership.