I met my partner around 5 years ago and we started dating a couple months in and around 3 years in we had our son (22 months old rn) and very soon after our daughter (4 months old rn). I was a teen mom so also have a 10 year old from previous relationship. That previous relationship was toxic and crazy I ended up leaving because he got a women pregnant I was so heartbroken after that I swear I wouldn’t love again, until I met my partner.
He was everything to me a good dad supportive partner we lived together and created a beautiful family sure things weren’t perfect but I thought we were both happy. Until this past Tuesday I caught him chatting with an ex and we decided to move past it for out family until couple days later on Friday I caught him still talking with her so all that was said about fighting for our family was all a lie but then he started saying that sorry people change feelings change and my heart sunk I was confused/shocked I was expressing that we have 2 under 2 things are hectic right now but it’s a phase we can start prioritizing our relationship more to see if he feels that spark but he was so reluctant and said he doesn’t want to lead me on.
He says his ex or the kids have nothing to do with it that’s is simply just him, his feelings have changed. We talked I asked several times at you sure like think about your family but he was so stuck on leaving. He officially moved out back to his moms and I asked him to take our toddler for the night cause I didn’t want him to see me distraught but I am completely devastated I am grieving the life I thought we were going to have our kids will have no memories of us together and I feel so stupid for opening up my heart again.