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Divorce/separation

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AutumnRose22 · 21/07/2025 11:46

This is a horrible post to write however I can’t stay with my husband any longer. We’ve got a 3 year old daughter but issues were clear long before I got pregnant. At this point I loved him and always thought things would get better

it’s clear finally that things will never get better. We argue constantly, we never laugh, never have sex. There’s just nothing there. Things that should annoy me don’t even anymore, I just feel nothing and don’t care what he does anymore. I feel it’s making me depressed and affecting my ability as a mother: I’ve finally told him I want out

the only major thing concerning me is I have no idea how to go around it. We’re in quite a bit of debt with loans etc. we bought our home early last year and there wouldn’t be much to be made from it after a sale. He can go and live with his mother but there isn’t anywhere for me and my daughter to go. Our financial situation is really dire so I couldn’t afford to rent on my own. I’ve just got no idea where to start with selling the house etc and when funds are severely lacking

any help or guidance would be much appreciated

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SpinachSpinachMoreSpinach · 21/07/2025 15:52

Education is power and can save you a lot of money:

  • Wikivorce
  • Divorce for Dummies
  • family solicitor websites
+ start getting organised. Gather and copy ALL financial documents - mortgage, P60s, pensions, bank statements, investments. Make a comprehensive but succinct list of all finances and consult with an experienced family solicitor websites. Use your time wisely by having a prepared list of questions and take notes during the meeting.
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