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Futurepast · 02/07/2025 06:53

So my ex is an angry and emotionally abusive man.
because I’ve stood up to him (via text - I freeze in person) he’s now threatening a load of things about our child.
He is very clever how he words things, they’re always attacks on me out what might hurt me.
He cannot see what he is like, but his entire family have begged him to seek help so it most definitely isn’t in my head as he says.

people keep telling me to get some support, have it on record but I don’t know who exactly I’m supposed to reach out to.
Surely the police wouldn’t do much without evidence?? As I’ve said he’s very clever how he words things ect.

Who can I reach out to? I’m worried if he knows I’ve spoken to someone it’ll make things worse.

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PersephoneParlormaid · 02/07/2025 06:54

What are you trying to achieve? Could you get some time away to speak to a solicitor?
Can you arrange to leave him and stay with someone/rent a flat while you divorce him?

Futurepast · 02/07/2025 07:32

I don’t live with him anymore. But as he doesn’t have a car I’m the one driving my daughter to and from him.

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Poopeepoopee · 02/07/2025 07:41

Futurepast · 02/07/2025 07:32

I don’t live with him anymore. But as he doesn’t have a car I’m the one driving my daughter to and from him.

Well knock that on the head for a start - if he wants to see his dd he can arrange it and do all the travelling.

What else are you trying to achieve?

Futurepast · 02/07/2025 07:50

I’m too scared to do that. He is very good at twisting things. He’ll make out like I’m using our DC against him. He did it with his other 2 kids mums.

The other thing I want is zero contact. He thinks I should be updating him on or DC’s daily updates but 1.doesn’t recognise I’m going out my way and 2.He was never interested when we lived together.

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