Divorce

[Phone43]

If you have got kids together how did you tell your husband that you want a divorce and what sort of time of day was it when you told your husband and did you wait till your kids were not around or in bed the reason why I am wanting to divorce is because my husband keeps starting huge arguments with me and it's all ways to the same arguments every single time late at night early in the mornings he will do it and he does it every other night or early in the mornings 2 am

I blurted it out in the middle of the day, on Mother's Day! At least I'll always remember it! I hadn't planned it that way.
There is no good time but the relief when you've said the words is immense. Yes, it's going to be awful immediately after. My ex has never been the shouty, aggressive sort so I wasn't worried about our DC hearing anything untoward.
If you think that your DP is going to react badly then arrange for the kids to be elsewhere or at least asleep.
It's one of those things you can't exactly plan but bear in mind, you've been thinking about it for a while, it may come as a shock to him.

Was it mothers day just gone

No. A few yrs ago but only got divorced last year.

Oh for goodness sake. Why are you asking the same questions over and over again for months OP? Sometimes your husband has cheated on you, sometimes your children are small and then they're teenagers.

As I've said before, if you're actually in an abusive relationship then stick to one post and stick to the facts so we can help or stop attention seeking.