Tell her husband!

[CoffeeloverNo1]

hey all, what’s the best way to inform the woman’s husband that she’s having an affair. Setting up another insta account? Email, I don’t have his number .. I want it to be anonymous and just to say. - Check her phone - shes having an affair and leave it as that he can then find out the ins and outs himself.

no negative comments. I was in a nearly 20 year relationship with this man. He left me and our children .. for her.. but she’s still married!!

If he's left you to set up home with her, I'm pretty sure her husband will notice soon. Stay out of it for now

Don’t do it anonymously, that’s horrible. My friend got a message through Facebook from his wife’s lover’s husband and was very grateful. He wasn’t the only bloke she was shagging, she was working her way round the office, and he knew something was up so was relieved to know he wasn’t going mad.

If you really want to tell him be up front and do it from your own account on whatever channel you know he’s on.

Do you want him back? If he’s abusive, you risk him trying to return to your house as he needs a roof over his head or him kicking off at you for causing trouble in the relationship. (I’m assuming that you don’t know her husband)

If you know the husband then can you ask a friend who doesn’t know him to contact him instead? Ideally you will have screenshots if he doesn’t believe you.

If it comes from a burner account it'll be dismissed and not believed. I don't understand why you're scared to let him know it's coming from you?

Setting off truth bombs can cause all sorts of collateral damage. Some of which you might have to live with for the rest of your life. And you children will too.

You have no idea how people could react especially people you don’t know.

Sending it from a burner or anonymously won’t stop people suspecting or knowing it is from you.