I thought it was done. We had the chat. He was shocked and sad - but seemed to accept moving out. It can’t happen yet - I had good advice in a previous thread about timing so it’s at least the end of July.
I started to be suspicious because he’s been in such a cheery mood. At first I thought he was relieved we were finally being honest with each other, and that this could be a better option for both of us.
But then I spoke to him at the weekend - and we’re virtually back to square one. He’s going to move into the spare room, but isn’t agreeing to move out. It’s ‘if you want me to I will’ but I know that means I would have to really force things to make it happen.
For context, he has anger issues and a history of emotional abuse episodes.
I am so sad. I can’t sleep and am struggling to deal with everything else in my life. He doesn’t seem to care or notice. (That’s the only thing that makes me trust my feeling ironically. Surely any normal DH would care about my emotions?)
I don’t know what to do. Just feels so hard to get through the days. I know the only real option is to end things so not sure what I’m asking for here. I just need somewhere to put this all down.