Partner left me (I was totally blindsided) nearly a year ago. We share a DC of primary age. I was suffering with very severe anxiety and he was initially supportive then became very cruel, which exacerbated things to the point of needing inpatient treatment.
We’d been together a long time (years) and were engaged. He ended it by email. At that point all politeness, care and compassion went out the window. He is angry, cruel, says he never wants to see me again. He has stayed in the house, changed the locks and barred me from even going there, I have struggled to persuade him to let me even see my DC. I’m in hell, in pain. He hates me, despises me. Says I am dangerous, a narcissist (I asked my therapist who said I’m definitely not and he sounds narcissistic and abusive). I am not coping at all. How on earth to recover, survive. Even think about living again.