My husband has found a place to rent and is due to move out Friday. We were planning to tell the kids today, however with all the conflict over the past month, I totally put it out my mind that our son has Sats w/c 12th May. Now, I don’t know when we should tell them and what to do about him moving out. My first thought would be to say he’s working away for a week or two and then break the news after sats week . Or take a gamble and hope the news isn’t too life shattering that he’ll end up with terrible results from it 😞 The conflict we have is that he can’t stay here because I’m due to go back to the office which he doesn’t want me working at because I was seeing a guy from there (we split 2 months ago) however in his head we weren’t separated because I allowed him to continue living here, but now it’s got a point where we do need to make a clean break because I don’t want to give up my job, yes it’s just a job but to me, it’s my identity, the thought of leaving makes me sad and I’ve applied for over 40 jobs the past month and heard nothing.