I have been to court with my child’s dad. He sees our child for 6 hours every other weekend. Prior to this there was a non mol in place for 2yrs. Once that was lifted he barely saw our child until he was almost 4. Recently we haven’t been getting on and some of the messages he sends are rather… interesting. They always have a mildly threatening tone to them. He overreacts at very small things. An example of this is this weekend we met at our drop off point and I had my partner take me as I was having car trouble. He saw the car and tried to approach. Normally we don’t speak at drop off and I assist our child in and out of the car. I said thank you and took hold of our child’s hand. He started questioning me about how I got there (although I knew he saw me coming out of the car).
I declined to answer and he attempted to follow me to see where I was going. He knows I have a partner but this was his first time seeing him. When we were in a better place we agreed when the wedding is closer, he can have a conversation with him if he would like to. He then sent me a message saying “I don’t know why you think to being vague about where my child is going. If I ask you tell me. Anyway keep playing. It’s all fun. You will regret treating my child like this” there were many other paragraphs in between these messages. Rant after rant. I don’t tend to reply when he does this as it makes it go on and on and a lot of the time they don’t make sense. E.g him saying I’ll treating his child like that??
meet ups give me anxiety. Is there a way I can have this referred back to the court for it to go back through a contact centre?