I don’t know what to do in my marriage. I’ve been married 2 years together 5 with a DS 18 months old. Me and and my husband seem to have arguments all the time at least monthly lasting a few days. He works at home and a lot of the house is dedicated to his stock (garage, attic, rooms in house) he acts like he’s my boss complaining about pieces of toys, jigsaws pieces missing he berated me for not exercising yet I’ve started swimming at least once a week and he’s stopped running, he acts so fatigued (getting up once a week at 5am and going back to bed). He doesn’t get up till 9/10am and doesn’t like me using the bathroom in the morning as it wakes him up so I’m left in my pajamas ready to start the day until much later than I’d like. I know I’d be happier if I lived alone I’ve felt a lot of pressure to keep my son quiet during the day as he works from home I spent a lot of time walking or in the library I don’t feel relaxed like I can live how I want. I was making pancakes one Sunday for lunch and he kicked off saying he wanted our son to eat more vegetables yet one day when I went swimming he gave him canned rice pudding for lunch. My flexitime at my just was denied to I’m a SAHM.