Hi,
I have managed to survive a very complicated high conflict divorce. The children are with both parents 50/50.
My daughter who is 7 is still in a very tiny village school that have been loosing pupils right left and centre. They have lost the entirety of Y4 and because leadership has been quite weak. And intake is 5-6 a year. My ex doesn’t want to move her at all costs, it’s a mixture of the school being closer to him and also he likes the small school. Daughter is dyslexic and had hardly any support. I have asked for a personal plan since sept and still nothing. The teacher is there only 3 mornings and the rest if a mixture of supply and volunteers. The senco is in school 1 day a month. Daughter could likely have adhd too and cannot get the school to fill out forms so I can get her assessed. If I try to talk to him he gets very controlling and starts with abusive language. He also is consistently telling daughter that i want to change her school in ways I feel are inappropriate, telling her that I don’t like her school etc etc. All very damaging for her and not helpful.
is there anything I can do? I know that I cannot move her without his consent. It is killing me that I am unable to help her. Could cafcass help? Does anyone know?