Can someone enlighten me about mediation please?

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Just the title really, and experiences of people who have gone through the mediation process.
I think we should be able to agree without third parties’ involvement but if this isn’t the case and we get a mediator in, what happens? How intrusive is it? How legally binding their advice?
I just started the process and I’m already exhausted 😩

It could be very useful if both parties can work together and are reasonable. It's a complete waste of time otherwise. I went through six sessions and I should have called a halt after the second.

If you are looking for a fair division and both you and your stbx are realistic and reasonable, then it’s good. If you are dealing with a controlling nightmare then don’t bother wasting your money.

As above. Both parties have to want to engage with the process and be willing to negotiate. If not, mediation can often fall flat. Or it stalls before it even starts.

It only works if both parties are honest and want to come up with a fair resolution. I’m three sessions in and exH has been deceptive about many things and is now saying he doesn’t see the point of it and wants to use a solicitor. You both have to provide financial disclosure which is sent to both parties, nothing is legally binding as far as I’m aware but if court is what’s going to happen you have to attempt mediation first. So yeah, waste of time in my case but I know it helps a lot of people!