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Benefit fraud

64 replies

Firemanswife · 23/02/2025 12:27

I've recently become aware (via a court case with my ex wife about finances) that she is claiming universal credit, however looking into this, it seems that this may have been applied for fraudulently, due to the amount of spousal maintenance paid and that this was clearly not declared (this was court ordered by amount)

I pay spousal and child maintenance and have done for the last 15 years for our 4 children and to maintain her 'standard of living'
My question is - if I was to report her for benefit fraud, would I be able to submit the bank statements or would this be illegal?
Thanks
FMW

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RainingRoses · 23/02/2025 12:29

Child maintenance isn’t considered when making a universal credit claim. I’d be surprised if you actually are paying spousal support.

Why do you hate your ex wife so much that you’re looking for ways to unsettle her life and the lives of your children?

user1468867181 · 23/02/2025 12:33

Child maintenance is ignored by UC. Spousal maintenance is treated as unearned income and should be deducted from any UC entitlement £ for £.

unsync · 23/02/2025 13:03

Do you not like your children that you want to do this to their mother?

thecrispfiend · 23/02/2025 13:08

Child maintenance is not counting in income for universal credit

Blushingm · 23/02/2025 13:10

thecrispfiend · 23/02/2025 13:08

Child maintenance is not counting in income for universal credit

Spousal maintenance is though

4Candle · 23/02/2025 13:12

How come you ended up paying spousal maintenance? I always thought barely anyone paid it.

AppleCelebration · 23/02/2025 13:12

Fuck sake man this isn’t a fight to start. Whatever you do to her affects the children too. It’s not all about you

RainingRoses · 23/02/2025 13:15

Blushingm · 23/02/2025 13:10

Spousal maintenance is though

And spousal maintenance is rarely paid. If their lifestyles and earnings are low enough that she claims universal credit, I highly doubt they will be in the category of being awarded spousal too.

wandapower · 23/02/2025 13:32

I'd say leave it, I understand you're bitter but the more money she has, the better off your kids are. Focus on that and let it go. She's probably doing the bulk of the parenting too.

Gingerkittykat · 23/02/2025 13:52

How much spousal maintenance do you pay?

Achyarms · 23/02/2025 13:53

Why would you want to deny your children money?

4Candle · 23/02/2025 13:57

Achyarms · 23/02/2025 13:53

Why would you want to deny your children money?

I guess if the spousal isn’t being declared I would probably have a bit of an issue paying it, knowing that additional UC was being claimed as a result. I’d probably argue I can stop paying spousal as you have the UC?

We don’t know all the circumstances tbh, but I do think there could be a valid argument here.

Blushingm · 23/02/2025 13:57

@RainingRoses but if she's not declaring it on her UC claim then she's stealing from everyone else by taking money she's not entitled to

LePetitMaman · 23/02/2025 13:57

Firemanswife · 23/02/2025 12:27

I've recently become aware (via a court case with my ex wife about finances) that she is claiming universal credit, however looking into this, it seems that this may have been applied for fraudulently, due to the amount of spousal maintenance paid and that this was clearly not declared (this was court ordered by amount)

I pay spousal and child maintenance and have done for the last 15 years for our 4 children and to maintain her 'standard of living'
My question is - if I was to report her for benefit fraud, would I be able to submit the bank statements or would this be illegal?
Thanks
FMW

If you earn enough to be court awarded spousal maintenance, then it's a big amount she's getting. And she wouldn't have been able to hide that from UC as they will have seen her bank statements.

Why are you so vindictive that you want to report the mother of your children?

Snorlaxo · 23/02/2025 14:00

If it’s transferred with child maintenance or not specifically labelled spousal maintenance then the mother could say it’s all child maintenance and say they have a private arrangement so UC would be none the wiser.

RainingRoses · 23/02/2025 14:07

Blushingm · 23/02/2025 13:57

@RainingRoses but if she's not declaring it on her UC claim then she's stealing from everyone else by taking money she's not entitled to

I didn’t say that it’s ok to do that. I said I highly doubt he is so financially successful to justify paying spousal maintenance considering she has to claim universal credit.

MsVi · 23/02/2025 14:13

You sound a real prize. Lucky escape for her.

vodkaredbullgirl · 23/02/2025 14:18

How much are you paying?

4Candle · 23/02/2025 14:26

RainingRoses · 23/02/2025 14:07

I didn’t say that it’s ok to do that. I said I highly doubt he is so financially successful to justify paying spousal maintenance considering she has to claim universal credit.

But he’s literally said he’s paying SM? So are you saying he’s making that up?

Barrenfieldoffucks · 23/02/2025 14:27

Why on earth would you do that?

Bakedpotatoes · 23/02/2025 14:31

Why would you come on to a predominantly mother's forum to get us to agree to reporting the mother of your children and possibly make her life harder/less money and potentially prison?

4Candle · 23/02/2025 14:34

If you want proper advice I’d maybe just mention it to her, you’re clearly going to do something. See if she’s fine with SM to be stopped paying or reduced (which is clearly what you want) or that you’re aware she’s claiming UC.

If you have no issue paying SM then come on, I would just drop it, if you’re finding it hard to pay it then mention it to her.

Reporting her to the authorities, to me, is the last resort, in fact I just wouldn’t do it at all. But each to their own.

RedHelenB · 23/02/2025 14:42

Maybe she has declared it? How much are you paying her a month in total amd how much of that is spousal?

RedHelenB · 23/02/2025 14:43

RedHelenB · 23/02/2025 14:42

Maybe she has declared it? How much are you paying her a month in total amd how much of that is spousal?

I would pay it in 2 different amounts, referenced spousal/ child. If there is fraud going on it will be picked up .

bifurCAT · 23/02/2025 14:45

My question to those saying leave it.

If it's found out later, wouldn't the repercussions be worse?

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