He quite frankly doesn't give a toss about dc. Has him once a week for 8 hrs, drops him off early in favour to take his new familly out and doesn't include him when there's zero reason to not include him when it falls on his day. That is one recent example of what a thunder cunt he is. He doesn't have any overnights because dc gets in a right state and he's under a children's mental heath charity for support so it really does him no good, it also didn't help at all that dc witnessed a huge row that him and ow were having, he hid behind the door and it terrified him. It all tied in with him wanting to not stop at dad's anymore but I couldn't get it put of it, it took 6 weeks for him to tell me ther reason and he begged me not to tell dad that I knew.
Went to mediation Monday ( previously posted) it was awful saw how little I earn, and his monthly maintenance sum obviously is a top-up. I knew in that moment he would start messing about with the overnight set up, which will unsettle him, and here I am.
Tonight He dropped dc off he's in floods of tears like he does every week,he knocked on the door and said dc wanted to stop the following weekend. I haven't seen this man face to face in over a year. we are no contact apart from emails, which he mainly ignored unless he wants something. For instance, I emailed him this week asking him to buy dc glasses. I brought the last set, and he's ignored it.
I'm so angry that he's so goven by his desire to end me that he uses dc, he doesn't want him overnight, he's completely fine dropping him off on the summer, leaving him on my drive in floods of tears. It's all just a tick box exercise, and the only one who will lose out is dc.
The worst part is he has nowhere, so stay other than a sofa bed downstairs. They have 2 up 2 Dow. no bed room and nothing to call his own.
Can I say no? Should I say no?
I don't know what to do.
I'm tempted to let it all play out again and hope 3rd stint lucky and it all works out but I'm not happy, no where to sleep, her and her nasty mouth and him playing games.