Been unhappy for 2.5 years, together 15. Husband has been either emotionally abusive …either that or the horribleness was caused by him being mentally unwell (he says he’s mentally ill but this is undiagnosed). He has said he is going to get help but hasn’t done so yet. I feel like I care about him but not sure I love him anymore. I don’t feel sexually attracted to him anymore and haven’t for a long time. Other than this we have a comfortable life…small child… lovely home… financially secure… nice in laws. He tells me I’ll be throwing away so much. I know deep down he loves me but I just feel like there’s no spark and I’ll just be settling for what it is for fear of the unknown. Im in my early 30s. I’m bored… crave time to myself as I can’t enjoy time spent with him… and feel like I could do better but the grass isn’t always greener.