Advice on how to leave.
Can anyone help me, please? I have been in a relationship for 7 years, he can be charming and funny at times but really, life with him is incredibly difficult and my mental health is suffering.
As soon as he knows I’m planning to leave he sucks me back in so I need to plan without him knowing, like his last partner did.
However, we are not married, I’ve got myself into debt whilst being with him, he owns the house, I have no part of it, I work at his work for minimum wage part-time, I have no family or friends to stay with anymore. I have a daughter to think about. I also have two cats and a lovely dog.
I’m starting to struggle to work as I am so mentally exhausted. I feel really depressed and am having intrusive thoughts. I just want to get out of this. I keep thinking about the good times but this relationship is going to kill me. I miss me. My confidence is gone.
I’m on the housing register, waiting to be categorised, I’ve emailed citizens advice. My credit score is awful. How do I find I place to live without any savings or proper job as i am self-employed. How can I claim if I am still with him? I earn very little, he earns x8 my wage.
Please be kind, I know this is my fault. It got worse after having our daughter.