Telling the children

[Husband3t]

How to tell the children it is down to me to tell the children

Depends on ages and what is happening….

They are teens and I am moving out

Just explain you are separating and moving out. Don't apportion blame or fault. Reassure.

Why are you separating? Have you cheated? I'm not saying you should tell them, but I think it makes a difference to how you tell them. If they're going to find out you're with someone else soon don't insult their intelligence by saying something like "we just fell out of love with each other". Teens understand far more than you might imagine. Find a way to tell them that respects the truth of the situation and they are more likely to retain a strong and honest relationship with you into adulthood.

Because my husband keeps starting arguments with me and blaming me for anything and everything and he is abusive to me as well and stopped me from seeing my family and friends and stopped them from coming off