My children’s dad and I co parent our 2 boys (9&11). We get in well enough. His work is full on, so he only has the boys every other weekend (late Friday night Sunday evening). The rest of the time I do everything. He’s been a long job since April (which means, even if it’s his weekend but he has to work I have the kids). Before April he been on a job since September, so realistically it’s been over a year that I have been picking up all the childcare (every half term the entire summer etc etc). I just did a 3 week stretch because he went abroad with work. He finished this job on Friday and now has 2 months off. I have just embarked on a new career venture and could seriously do with him to take the reins for a bit so I can focus on it and get some long days in. He is saying that he needs to rest, go and see his folks etc… I’m feeling but like he thinks that his exhaustion is trumping my exhaustion (of bringing up 2 boys pretty much single handed for the last yr). And I’m mad. Am I being unreasonable. I feel like he thinks I can just have them all the time while he goes and has a lovely time and see them when he likes…