My ex used to earn about 32k and I earn about 40k. We are due to sell the house after divorce and I expected a straightforward split of 50/50 (90k each) as there are no special circumstances from our time together, amount we contributed etc. He quit his job a little while ago to supposedly concentrate on setting up a business. This is yet to be fruitful so he survives on benefits and handouts from his mum. His solicitor has advised him he could be entitled to more than half the equity due to his lack of income/mortgage raising capacity/current inability to house the children in a big enough flat.He currently rents a 1 bed maisonette (with three beds). He won’t have any mortgage raising capacity due to no steady income. When he gets the equity he will presumably live off that while renting a bigger flat until it runs out and he goes back on benefits in a few years. Even if he got more equity he still won’t get a mortgage surely, so it would just be giving him a bit more to run through.I was hoping to buy a 2 bed property with half the equity. Has anyone been in a similar situation and is able to advise please? I wouldn’t mind giving him more in theory, but it would mean me not being able to buy and I’d struggle to afford to rent as rent is much more expensive. So I’d end up being in a worse position because of his questionable choice to quit work.
If it makes a difference, we have two youngish girls. At the same time as quitting work he started to push for 50/50 care (has been happy with 30/70 til now) so will probably have that soon. I tried to argue that he can’t give them stability right now so shouldn’t take them on more but he is determined to have 50/50. Thanks!