Turning to mumsnet as I literally cannot voice this out loud to anyone!
Myself and husband have been together 11 years, 2 small children and are having big problems.
To cut a long story short, myself and my MIL have butted heads over the years but I think we've worked out how to be around each other now, but anytime she has said a bitchy and unnecessary comment to me, my husband doesn't say or do anything. Am I in the wrong for hoping he would ever step in?? I feel like he's scared of his mum to be honest but that's a whole other thread...
He's fobbed me off saying he's been too busy to call the Dr's about getting the snip for 6 months and I called him out on it the other day to which he admitted he's scared/doesn't want to have an operation. Why didn't he tell me this instead of always saying he's too busy at work to call?
He's all about hus business, which is doing amazingly well. To the point where we don't date, and even if we ever do go out, he doesn't have many friends anymore as he doesn't make effort with them and he also has quit alcohol 2 years ago so very limited on what we can do. I'd love to go to a good bar and listen to some live music but I'm not going to sit and drink on my tod!
I've gotten to the point where I think the world of him but not interested in sex with him anymore and it literally just feels like we're room mates. Is this over or a terrible rut??