V proud and difficult H. He openly admits to be revengeful. After years of emotional abuse and insults and refusing to pay for anything - I have to leave
I have young kids. A joint mortgage. Both work full time. The logistics of how we unravel ourselves is terrifying but even more so when he will be so incredibly angry. He has issues with women in general - and thinks women are "mad".
I don't know how to say it. I can't tell him the truth as he will just get so angry. I want him to somehow think it's his idea too. I mean he doesn't like me v much seemingly so in a way he might like it but his pride and ego will stop him from being able to see that
Do I just sit him down one evening? Do I leave with the DC? Leave by myself? I will happily blame myself and say "its me, not you" if it makes him less angry.
Any advice?