Hi!
Myself and my OH split approx 1 month ago.
I ended things due to text messsges he sent me on a night out, last year he was messaging a family friend and as he works away 4 nights a week, the relationship suffered and we grew apart.
im staying with my parents and then returning home when he is away. That’s the only thing I can afford to do right now.
my daughter seems ok with it, obviously she is missing is being together but he cannot accept that it’s over. He keeps messaging me saying how bad a person I am for doing this, how can I do it, why am I breaking the family up for petty reasons etc.
i have tried explaining that I feel we have grown apart, trust issues, lack of affection etc but he just won’t accept it.
How do I handle this situation?
I have support from friends and family but my daughter has just been picked up and the text he has sent says “I don’t know how you can watch us drive away, look at what you are doing to our little family”