For the last two years and much more so since spring 2023, DH has been distant. He has a relatively new bunch of friends mostly divorced or separated and began frequenting a bar which is known for Tinder hook ups. I told him I wanted out of the relationship but crumbled and gave another chance. Fast forward to May this year and found out a very heavy porn addiction and photos/videos of topless women taken whilst on family holidays wtf. Needless to say, I have finally found my senses and we are separating. This is the background, but if this wasn’t enough, my trauma comes from some images (from a decade ago) I found of him sat up in bed, his laptop open, webcam on, his face appears, then he turns his laptop to focus on me. I am sleeping and am topless. There are three of these videos very close in time to one another and he always does the same thing, turns the laptop to film me for around 15 seconds each time. Given the Gisele Pelicot case, I am wondering what on earth he is doing? Any idea????