Is there such a thing as a divorce referee/ counsellor? (New Forest)

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My marriage has been very unhappy for quite some while. I've tried to keep it together for the children, but it is just too toxic a situation to continue.

Although I would love for it to work, I think it really has gone past the point of no return. My husband is in denial about anything. It's like I need a grown-up to give him a poke with a sharp stick or decree it is over, as nothing I say or do will spur him into action.

Is there such a thing as final counseling or a last-stop saloon to help navigate this nightmare? If there is... where do I go about finding such a professional?

If anyone has any recommendations (face to face) in the New Forest or surrounding area, then I would be so grateful for any recommendation.

I'm broken. I can't live like this anymore.

OP, I feel sure you are a grown up. You can decree it is over. I feel the subtext is you want someone else to tell him to be considerate and behave etc. I don’t think it will work.

Agree with pp

yiu appear to want someone consent confirm you are right and fe is wrong

if you want out, tell him and action it.

he will get the message when you start divorce proceedings

Couples therapists are trained to help couples end relationships well and to ensure everyone's voice is being heard.

Make sure the counsellor is CORST registered.

Mediation or marriage guidance? I filed for divorce and my ex was in complete denial so the solicitor advised mediation. When we went he told the mediator that divorce 'wasn't going to happen' but the mediation sessions helped him to understand why.

Recommend mediation or couple's counselling. Or, before that, some counselling or psychotherapy sessions for you on your own.