Would anyone know if this is the process for solicitors. Basically I got some advice a year ago from a solicitor, which cost £306. One consultation, 2 emails. This hasn't been paid yet as I wasn't 100% of the future. Now I'm in a position to proceed & pay the outstanding balance. Basically they won't proceed until O/S is paid and further £500 retainer paid upfront. This, for me, single parent to two teens is a lot off money. Initially I wanted them to draft up a settlement order, but had been told previously, my ex would need one also, which I know he won't do. So am I just wasting my money at this stage. I just don't know what way to go forward. For info, I have tried numerous times to discuss with ex and there's absolutely no discussions from him. Thanks for reading, didn't mean for it to be so lengthy