My husband and I are in our 50s. We've been together for approx 25 years. Last year we decided to separate. I moved into the spare room. We've agreed to sell the house and split the money 50/50. However, he is one of those people who endlessly starts DIY projects but does not finish them. Therefore, the house is not ready to put on the market. Instead of simply finishing all the stupid little things he's started and calling it quits, he's currently driving me mad by starting even more jobs. He says the house will be worth more when he's done but at this rate he's never going to be done. I don't think he's stalling on purpose because he doesn't want us to separate. He's just got a total ADHD brain when it comes to jobs and lists. Where do I stand legally? How do I stop him making my home worth less with all these bloody unfinished jobs. I just want to get out, get my own place and start living again. Being here in this half finished house with him is claustrophobic and to be honest this side of his personality is one of the reasons I can't be with him anymore. I feel like I'm a prisoner who is being coerced into living with him.