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Lonely and scared since break up

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Oceansmum21 · 13/08/2024 20:54

Hi,

I'm new to this however not quite sure who to turn to...
So my ex and I were together just shy of 10 years and we got engaged February this year. However things have been rocky since, My ex never really handles stress well nor adult hood (we're both 30) and things are just always so black and white with him. We have a 3 year old dd and I've just found out I'm pregnant (around 5 weeks) and my ex had upped and left and states he doesn't want anything to do with this new baby but will continue to provide for and see our dd. (So much more to this story and the fact he always runs away when things get tough) Ever since my ex left (roughly a week ago) I've been having our dd in my bed because I feel lonely and scared, I'm putting her back in her own bed tonight However I'm terrified something bads going to happen to myself or her when we're not together in the same room and as she's in her own room again il be unable to help her. I've recently come off of Sertraline since finding out I was pregnant but I'm really struggling with these nights alone and I feel I have no one to talk too..
Has anyone else been in this situation?

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MaybeMrs · 13/08/2024 20:58

I haven’t but I’m here if you need to chat. Coming off sertraline cold Turkey will not be helping how you feel. I take it also and recently felt ‘better’ so stopped for 2 days and felt awful. Really panicky and anxious. Hve you anyone in real life you can ask for support?

Oceansmum21 · 13/08/2024 21:20

I've not told my family yet, about the pregnancy nor separation. I'm embarrassed and I cant face telling them yet. X

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