Just wondering if anyone can help here.
Basic situation: STBXH and I are in later stages of divorce process. Everything is pretty much agreed but we are still waiting on a value for his NHS pension which is really slowing things down.
I work in finance and have a significantly higher income than him. He's worked in the NHS in an office role at various levels for the last 15 years. I have only started paying in to a pension in the last 2 years and as a result haven't built up much.
Due to the income disparity we have agreed that he will keep the house and equity (house is about half paid and big increase in value since bought, so low mortgage) and that I will take our savings (about 20% of total assets) so I have a deposit for a new house, as I am currently renting. We're 50/50 with our three DC and I will be paying significant maintenance to provide a similar standard of living in both households.
We're all set to get this finalised, but have been waiting for his NHS pension value (or a cash equivalent value) that we can include in the figures. We could proceed without it, but I have no idea what this number could be. My earning potential should be higher, but this might be quite a big asset. He's pushing to continue without this and asking me to remove mine.
Could anyone share even an approximate value for this kind of pension? Or even how long you had to wait (we are 8 months and counting). I've done some searching and can't seem to find anything, and also don't know if this is the kind of thing that is quite a good pension at retirement, but given some low nominal value in these cases, and is therefore not that relevant.
Thanks!