Hey Everyone, I am here for advice or I am not sure why, but here I am. So I will try to cut this long story short. Me and my husband have been together for 9 years, been married for 5. I opened a thread back than on here that my father passed away and I got some inheritance, and he straight away claimed the half of it as “it s his share”. Basically he took huge amounts of loans and he claimed this money as he spent a lot on me , so he can pay his loan partially, the loan I never knew of.
This was a breaking point, as I felt he basically said that he spent money on me and now it s my turn to pay back. Also he threatened that he will divorce me as I was being unfair if I refuse to give him ‘his part”. Anyway… I gave the money at the end, but here we go again…
I work part time as DD goes to nursery, and working full time wouldn’t be worthy financially for me, so I work 3 days and 4 days I am with her. My husband keeps blaming me and makes me feel that I am the reason for our financial situation. Today something happened and he basically wanted me to purchase something for £200 with my Paypal credit, which I am already in debt. I told him that I can help, but could we put the money back to the account Asap as I don’t want more debt. He got the same reaction, when the inheritance issue happened, and threatened me with the divorce and he is ghosting me at home. It has been a while I am considering divorce, but I am so scared what my life going to look like… also I don’t have savings as he literally took almost my money I had from the inheritance (non UK so property prices are very different but still) so it makes this whole situation super scary , but I think I want a divorce as well. What steps should I take? How do I prepare myself for it? Thank you for taking your time to read and if you answer !