Long separation then divorce and consent order

[Lollygirl15]

Hi all,
New poster so please go easy! My situation:
Separated 7 years, I live in the family home with our 2 older children who are both at uni some of the year. I’ve paid the mortgage solely for 6 years on the agreed basis that we would split the property 50/50 when they finished education and keep our own pensions.
He has a long term social housing tenancy in a new build with no desire to buy. I plan to buy him out of his share.
House 180k, outstanding mortgage £35k
My salary 40k, his self employed ‘declared’ income around 15k.
On separation our pensions were similar, since then he has worked ‘by choice’ less hours. I have gone from part time to full time and 2 promotions so pension has increased post separation.
pensions mine -109k, his 70k.
Cars /furniture/debts were all shared equally on separation.

Does anyone have experience of consent order split following such a long separation? Were the assets following separation split?
Am doing the divorce online and will get a consent order drafted but neither of us wants to pay for legal advice. Would this 50/50 equity split seem fair if we explain our reasons for the pensions being inequitable?

Thanks for any advice or experiences

Yes I'd say that as long as you are both happy the inequality is not sufficient to prevent sign off.

Thanks @FatfunandADHD I really hope so!

They will look at fairness - are todays needs met and tomorrows (ie pension) met. I would suggest that the pensions aren’t that different to make a judge order you to give any to your ex. I know you said you don’t want to pay for any legal advice but it might be worth an hour with a solicitor?