I need to extend the non-molestation order but I need some advice as I am doing it myself. It was extended before but it was done by a judge who was considering the occupation order. Long story short, I didn't fill the form, I just ask the judge and he extended it for 6 months. It expires sometimes in July.
Divorce started in July
Condition order granted in February
Financial order in progress through court
We live in the same house and it has been a nightmare.
The form asks for reasons and i need to make sure i get this right as he has a solicitor who is just like him - not nice at all
My reasons are:
I need this until the divorce and the financial order is finalised. ( is he is dragging the financial order by not responding and asking for things that are obvious such as pension reports when it is clear that out pensions are the same value ect)
He has accused and reported me to the police for accessing his current account when it was him accessing the account at that time as per timestamp on his statement submitter for the financial disclosure.
He talks to the dog about me - saying things to him that apply to what he thinks i am.
He bangs doors and everything in the kitchen to the point that we get out of the house as it is terrifying. it is not what he does it is how he does it.
My daughter (23) and I sleep together as she doesn't feel safe and we lock the door when we go to bed (he hasn't been physical but he is cross and has nothing to lose). He stood on the side of the bed while our daughters was sleeping for few minutes just steering at her and then left banging the door. She said that she could feel him standing there but pretended to sleep.
We installed a camera in my bedroom as we knew he comes and checks my stuff regularly and we wanted to be safe. he came in calling me a fucking whore, saw the camera and left as he was closing the door he opened it again and spoke to the camera reinforcing of what he had said before - yes you are a f-ing whore.
police have been called several times but as we live in the same house and the emotional abuse is not a thing unless you have bruises they could not do anything - just warned him.
Please help me to put it in the order that I can convince the judge that I do need this protection until everything is sorted.
Sorry, I tried to be short but I can't. Thank you.