Hi,
just want some advice, as it's causing me so much stress and anxiety thinking about it.
I was with my partner nearly 11 years have 2 children and had to go through ivf for my 3rd we paid for Ivf start of 2023 and had our first round in march but sadly ended in miscarriage and then finally the second round in may and found out I was pregnant but my partners out of the blue turned round and said it wasn't working and that it was never going to work if we tried which I can't get my head round
¿ he then moved out of our
home he told me for weeks that he was renting a room but I later found out that he was living with a girl that he worked with since the day he moved out, which looking back I'm pretty sure he cheated just after my misscarrige!
i could keep going on but my baby is 14 months now and I haven't been able to let him go down to his dads house even for a few hours (he is still with the girl but a bit of an up down relationship) from the day he was born he's only been seeing him for a maximum 4 hours per week(what he wants) I've said to him that before I let him go with him he needs to build a relationship with him l've said to him take him out and spend sometime or go to your mums etc do what you need to do, from he was born he hasn't helped with anything other than coming to see him for them couple of hours per week, I had to drive 1 week post c section. We do generally get on for the sake of the other child, Ijust don't know what to do at this point (
hopfully this all makes sense and it would be good to get other peoples advice.