Divorcing uncooperative abusive exH via my (rubbish) lawyer. In Scotland.
Last autumn we both had Minute of Agreement all agreed (by email). It was then sent by my lawyer to exH Pension provider who returned it to my lawyer saying 'strike out the 'when exH retires' line as he already has'. Lawyer sent this to me as an attachment on brief letter saying 'need to strike out section 7'. No further comments. I agreed it.
Crucially I didn't question this enough. (I've two disabled children & I'm also disabled, I struggle to get through each day tbh & sometimes miss things).
The Divorce part is about to go through which makes the Agreement unchangeable. I now have concerns that exh removed £ from the Pension just before the Agreement was finally signed & witnessed. Should the Pension provider have told my lawyer? If so / should my lawyer have asked / told me? Am I just totakly stuffed?
Clearly I've not been sufficiently on top of this. But my lawyer has been rubbish (tried to convey house into wrong persons name, messed up my legal aid twice over & generally really poor) so I'm very worried. Not only may exH have taken a chunk out but it might mean I have to start drawing pension & lose right to take out my 25% tax free.
Can anyone advise?