Divorce with a 2 yr old

[Angeldelight21]

Hi everyone,

I'm looking for a piece of wisdom here. Currently going through a divorce and I feel so sad for my 2 year old.

I feel jealous every time she goes to her dad and I'm just so not ready to share her. In my head I do understand she needs a mum and a dad, I get that but I just find it so hard. She was an IVF baby, my dream and I miss her so much.

Obviously she does not understand the situation but I feel so sorry for her not growing up in a full family.

Any advice?
TIA

Sorry you are feeling this way.

maybe when she goes to her dads you can prebook something to take your mind of things? A date with friends/cinema etc

hopefully after a little while you will feel less anxious.

How often does her dad have her, OP?

I'm so sorry you're going through this. It is tough, but you will get used to it and your daughter is so young she won't know any different

Thank you for your replies. We don't have set days or hours yet in place, he sees her when he wants to.

I'm trying to keep busy when she is away but it is just so hard. She always cries when her dad drops her off which makes things even worse.