So I told my other half I’m leaving. At first we discussed it really easily and he was offering help. Not making fuss over suggested access with kids. Today he is in pieces, I’m his everything, lost without me, he will change, things will be better, We need to try.
But I don’t won’t to give up the house iv been offered, what happens if it all goes back to the same. They weren’t overnight issues, things have been like this for years and he hasn’t cared how upset iv been, Or that iv been taking the load.
But iv got serious guilt over breaking up the family and that he’s so upset.
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Guilt trip! Should I give another chance?
Lost2twins · 28/03/2024 19:01
Lost2twins · 31/03/2024 20:05
Thank you all, we have spent the weekend playing nice.
Hes looking at a new puppy, booking a holiday. Playing super dad. Engaging with the kids more in one weekend than the past 5months!
Hasn’t once tried to discuss what the issues are or how we address them! Brushing it all under the carpet again. I know it will all be nice until he can’t be arsed again and il be in a worse position.
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