Hi guys,
I'm currently in the process of getting divorced from husband. I have had mediation, which he has refused to go to and I have spoken to a solicitor. I'm just wandering what the next steps are?
We are currently living in the same house that we share a mortgage on (I can't afford to move out and he won't move out). My main concern is how we will share the children once we have sold the house, they are 6 and 4 years old. I have tried to be amicable and come up with various schedules, but he won't agree and says he will have them.
Basically my question is what can I do if he's refusing to go to mediation? I want to do a child arrangements order, but I know it takes a very long time to be seen by the court and ultimately it will be their decision about the kids. Before I submit the form is there any other avenue which can sort this out? I'm getting verbally abused by him every day in front of my 2 kids and I can't take living here much longer with him.