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Finally filed but there’s a kicker…

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Happysadmom · 01/02/2024 20:06

So after 677 votes from all of you saying I should divorce my cheating husband and a lot of comments that slapped me with good ol reality, I filed for divorce. He was pissed to say the least. Another woman came forward claiming to have met my husband at a bar (he claims to not go to bars or drink ever) around the time he got baptized and married to me. I literally don’t know who I married.
so I’m pregnant with our second child and something was itching really bad so I went to the doctor and guess what!? FKING GENITAL WARTS! I learned that one of the women he slept with unprotected has HPV so that bastard gave them to me. His response was “I read this and I don’t know what to say.” I’m livid and I needed to share because what the actual f. I was faithful, I did not ask for any of this. F** this guy.

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Soupsetscared · 01/02/2024 20:28

Don't want to read and run.
I'm so sorry you are in this situation.

ErikaReadsTheDailyMail · 01/02/2024 20:58

That's absolutely shit for you OP, I'm really sorry. He sounds like an absolute animal. I hope in time you can come to appreciate how much better off you are without him.

Sunshineandwaterfalls · 02/02/2024 01:28

What a horrible person he is.. sorry your going through this

Mystro202 · 02/02/2024 02:20

Omg I am fuming for you. Keep up your smears as you are now at higher risk of cervical cancer (having hpv) Often it doesn't show affect for 10-20 years. At least you've got rid of the lying ba**d though. Good on you and best of luck going forward. This is the start of your best life.

Walking2024now30days · 02/02/2024 02:30

@Happysadmom

I'm sorry about the GW. Silver lining, it should make it easier not to relent & get back together with him.

there was a thread here before that might give you some hope. Try advanced search, but basically a lot of women posted they only had the initial outbreak & didn't have the symptoms ever again.

unfortunately though I think the only moral thing to do is tell potential sexual partners in advance & that in itself is shit, especially how you got it. Scummy bastard!!

but TRY to focus on your freedom from him first & foremost x

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Happysadmom · 03/02/2024 00:25

Thank you all for your sweet replies. This definitely makes it easier for me to stay away from him.

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