After a year of separation we've decided to divorce. Fine. Now H keeps texting me asking about solicitors, the fees, the divorce process, etc. I feel like telling him to fuck off and do his own research. It's like he wants me to hold his hand through the process. I'm trying to be patient because I'm a SAHM and am depending on a generous settlement, but it's really annoying. Especially after a year of almost no contact.
It follows a pattern in our relationship where he would make a mess of something then leave it to me to sort it out. He's the one who says he fell out of love with me, he's the one who gave up on our marriage. Now he's leaning on me to provide answers he could find for himself. Am I being unreasonable?