Me and my husband have been together for 10 years married for now 5, we have one child together and a child from my previous marriage. In the last two years I’ve fallen out of love with him. However in the last year I’m been having an affair with a women. I’ve always had an interest in women but never gone as far as this. I feel like now I can’t imagine my life with out her and I’ve always felt like I should have been with a women.
my husband Currently knows about the affair and for the last 6 months has has been trying to win me over as he doesn’t want our marriage to end.
I see him as my best friend but nothing more. I’m not sexually attracted to him, we don’t kiss or cuddle. We’re just two people who share a bed.
im wondering on how I get my self out of this situation, I feel it’s time I leave my husband as it’s not fair on him. He’s lovely bloke and deserves to find some one who loves him.