How much money?

[Ghostlyglow]

Has anyone any idea how much money I would need to "just leave" with nothing? I have no friends, no family,no support but I do have some savings.
I'm 58, retired with a small pension, I would not be entitled to benefits (because of savings).
I have been with my partner for over 30 years and can't take much more.
I'm in the north of England.

Thanks so much in advance for any advice.

The most obvious thing you need is a place to live. That is going to be a rental and in most parts of the country you will be limited to a private rental. Depending on where you live you will need a deposit and 1-6 months rent in advance. Maybe you could get away with less if you have a guarantor.

It might be worth contacting the council to see if they can help or housing associations who work with older people as you could be eligible for sheltered housing.

Without knowing the housing situation in your area no one can really answer. Perhaps speak to local estate agents and the council.

You could also explore getting an occupation order for the current home but that’s not your question. But if it was you would be using your savings to pay for that. Which might mean they are not available if and when you do have to move.

That's for you to know ,you know what lifestyle you want to have and what you can manage . It's just that simple.

If you paid the deposit and 6 months rent in advance would you still have over £16k?

You sound like you might want to talk about the whole thing, OP?

You must have at least £16k, that's enough to go, maybe get a pt job.

Yes, I do want to talk about everything, but I have nobody to talk to.

Yes, I would have more than 16k

This should be a supportive area to visit, if you are unable to provide information and/or support then don't say anything.

If someone has savings or their personal circumstances on the the surface looks to be a situation that can be easily navigated then in my opinion it is best not to assume this. From experience, moving on after being in a relationship for the similar length of time requires a plan, like many exits.
I wish you well with your choices and that you receive support from here or other sources.

If you are able to get yourself organised beforehand then do this.

I'm trapped. I can't escape. There is only one way out. I will plan that