My husband left about 3 weeks ago now, it was a very sudden decision although things haven't been right between us for months. He was still telling me everything was going to be OK and that he loved me the very morning he said he wanted to separate! However 3 weeks on I am trying my best to move forward for me and our 2 year old daughter. He has moved in with his parents and now sees our daughter twice a week. I'm lost. Some days I feel positive, even excited for the future. Other days I am devastated. I love him and want to shake some sense into him! We were together for 8 years, married almost 3 and although we have been more like room mates than a couple, I assumed it would work out eventually, life with a toddler is hard! But after he said he wanted to separate he wouldn't even consider marriage counselling or anything else. He just turned off his emotions.
I don't even know what I want from this post. Support maybe? Advice? How do I move on when I still have to see him (co parenting)? Any books or websites that might help?