Marital home is on market, we have decided to split. We have two boys, 5 and 1. Looking at doing a 50/50 split on the equity in the home (which will be around 85-95k each dependant on sale) and call it a day. I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place.
I started my own business in October last year so due to submit my first year's accounts by the end of this year/early Jan.
Ideally don't want to private rent as my equity won't last very long in the grand scheme of things and it's so expensive and difficult to do!
Possibility of buying a cheap 2 bed terrace/similar at auction, doing it up and living in it. This will be disruptive for the kids though as no family closeby. Also won't have a huge amount to throw at it. I have the option of moving back to hometown but this would mean pulling my eldest out of the school he has just started and loves. Also means he would spend a lot less time with his dad which is quite sad really. (I'd move back in with parents temporarily which is just not great in itself).
I came across another option yesterday - shared ownership. I'm unable to take out a mortgage due to only having 1 years of accounts so would put all of my equity into the shared ownership at around 50%. The only thing left to pay would be the monthly rent on the SO and the leasehold costs, maintenance etc.
Emailed the sales team for the development and they said 2 years of accounts required just for the rental portion of the property too. (Affordability criteria.) Is this normal? Can I get a guarantor for the rent part? Accounts will average to around 18k annually after 2 years which is still so low. I'll be receiving child maintenance too. My husband is on around 85k per year so looking at approx £800 per month.
What am I to do? I have no family to help with childcare so I can't get a full time job unless I pay for expensive childcare. My business is growing and it's the best thing I've ever done for myself. I can't see myself doing anything else now.
I feel like every time I try and come up with an option it comes crashing down.
This is one of the reason's I've stuck this marriage for so long - getting out is too much of a headache. 😥