Your honest opinion
So, we recently moved to Spain for a better quality of life. We have a teenager son.
I have been through cancer for 8 years and been married for 23 pretty happy years. We are both good looking people; not boasting but want to provide a context.
My husband has a single (as in ‘not married’) friend here with whom he often goes for a drink and to the gym, all with my blessing. I have never encroached on my husband’s freedom, never dragged him shopping with me and went to all my doctors’ appts on my own. I have always encouraged him to go out with friends. I am a fully functional human being despite the physical and psychological trauma I have accumulated these past years.
To cut a long story short, my husband went for a drink last night and this morning he told me that his friend met one of his girl friends who brought along another girl and they all went to a Latino dancing club. It looked like a premeditated double date. Of course he made it clear he was married and unavailable, he said 😂. He says nothing happened but this did not seem to have stopped them dancing the night away until
3 am when he came home.
I have been asking him for years to take me to a club like this and he always retorted that he was too shy to go.
I’m now in a hotel for a few days trying to decided in what direction to head. I value loyalty and respect above all things and I feel that this was a pretty serious breach of trust. Am I wrong? Am I overthinking, overreacting?
What would you do in my position? Thanks guys