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Ex partner threat to kids

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HollyIvy89 · 23/09/2023 21:24

Looking for advice sorry title should say
ex’s partner (not ex)
long story short ex partner has assaulted ex and he had her arrested year and half ago. I was concerned about kids being around her then but as she never threatened them and they were not there nothing I could do.
Fast forward to now. 2 incidents in last month where kids present and witnessed her verbal abuses and threatening behaviour to their father. One time he removed them brought them home and last time she was actually arrested. Kids had called police. They now so not want to return with her there. Dad has told them he has split up with her and they believe him but seems to be refusing to give me any reassurance when I have requested we have a conversation about the children safety. He won’t reply to my text or answer my calls. Kids are yet again on the police database. I feel like he owes me a conversation to reassure me the lady won’t be back.
i fear like last time he will take her back.
I am at a loss as to what to do.
I feel sick about it. I want to protect kids. They don’t want anything to do with her again.

OP posts:
tescocreditcard · 23/09/2023 21:25

how old are the kids

HollyIvy89 · 23/09/2023 21:53

15 and 10

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tescocreditcard · 23/09/2023 22:08

I'd say it would be pretty hard to force them to see him anymore. Especially the 15 year old. Don't make them go they clearly don't want to.

What do you mean when you say the kids are on the police database? I don't understand.

HollyIvy89 · 23/09/2023 22:17

It’s like a protection database that vulnerable people are put on so police know if they say get another call I think

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Anita848 · 05/11/2023 23:19

I know I'm a little late to this but if it can help keep your kids safe, see if this might help you - https://educationandchildmatters.iamlip.com/safeguarding-your-children/ it might give you some advice on what to do next. There are some links on there to forms/places that might be able to help xxx

Safeguarding Your Children - Education and Child Matters

https://educationandchildmatters.iamlip.com/safeguarding-your-children

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