So we had a big argument on the 19th and it ended in physical violence because it was going on for years and it became just unbearable I couldn't take it anymore. O that morning he called me names and being very disrespectful later that day he was just such a prick he's a narcissist and i just couldn't out up with it anymore we had big argument I hit him first but doesn't justify what he did after(swinger me on the floor slapped me called me names kicked me in back several times punched me)Still shocked took me almost hour to realise what happened but when I reminded myself of his words he said whore and slut to me I called police. Our relationship has been toxic after 1 year of marriage we were together 4 years. He was arrested and is living somewhere else but he hasn't given me money 2 weeks before that incident I receive benefits but what's use of having husband if he doesn't provide for me or does Limited and keeps track of hoe I spend even though I only spend on house stuff and grocery I use my own income for personal things because he only gives £50 and I had to ask him every time but now I use from benefit I receive but I wanted to know will it be a problem if I use do bank transfer from his card to mine will he use this against me in court? Were not divorced yet I can apply for conditional order in November and I know he's in emotional affair and she's also a narcissist like him . Should I get private investigator js it worth it? Has anyone been thorough the same? Can I use his affair against him in court I don't know if he has been psychical with her but I doubt because he used me to boost his ego and threw me away??